Becoming Wilder

The Journal

Reflections from my (therapy) couch

Thoughts on food, the nervous system, parts work, and slowly coming home to yourself.

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What Is Somatic Therapy? How Trauma Gets Stuck in the Body

Somatic therapy isn't just breathing exercises or naming where you feel a feeling. Here's what it actually means when trauma gets "stuck" in the body, and how the work can help it finish what it started.

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Signs of Trauma in the Body (Even When Nothing "Bad" Happened)

Trauma isn't only the big, obvious moments. Learn the signs of trauma in the body, and why food and body patterns might be protection, not flaws.

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Polyvagal Theory and Emotional Eating: Why Your Relationship With Food Keeps Changing

Why does your relationship with food change day to day? Polyvagal theory and emotional eating explains what's really happening in your body.

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Your Nervous System Is a Protection System — Here's What That Actually Means

Learn how your nervous system protects you, why stress can change hunger, cravings and eating patterns, and what nervous system regulation actually means.

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Window of Tolerance: Why Food Feels Harder When You're Overwhelmed

Learn what the window of tolerance means, how overwhelm can affect emotional eating and body image, and how building capacity creates more choice.

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Why Healing Your Relationship With Food Requires More Than Listening To Your Body

One of the most common pieces of advice in the eating disorder and intuitive eating world is: "Just listen to your body." And while I understand why people say it, I think it misses something important.

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